I use gaskets from
http://www.mcmaster.com, #1923K22, which I believe are the same ones you and Mike have been talking about.
The first year of operation, I had problems due to the inside surface of the boiler shell having damage on the gasket seating surface, and also due to the clamping bridge having too little span, so it was coming up tight against the handhole cover itself before if came up really tight on the boiler shell. Half an hour with a certified welder followed by my spending an hour with the Dremel took care of the shell, and the metal shaper took care of the bridge span.
If you are having trouble seeing the alignment, you might try a mirror in the bilge so you can see it straight on without having to stand on your head. Bright working light is also a must.
Agree with the others, hand tight plus 1/4 turn is guaranteed to leak. A good healthy one handed pull with a 12" wrench is a good place to start. If you are
certain, and I mean
certain as it is possible to be, of the condition of the handhole cover, its stud, nut, and bridge, then you can give the nut an additional tweak should you hear a slight leak under pressure, but only if you are
certain. That is no place to be taking a chance. You will find that no additional torque is needed after internal pressure has squished the gasket a little. Once the sound stops, stop tightening.
My handhole comes out after every operation. A dry boiler is a stable boiler in storage. I use the same gasket over and over as long as it isn't showing signs of damage.
It was not easy to convince Allnutt. All his shop training had given him a profound prejudice against inexact work, experimental work, hit-or-miss work.